tenderlesbian:

the fact that most men know women get scared of them easily (for extremely valid reasons) and take advantage of that is sickening. don’t tell me men don’t know when a woman is clearly uncomfortable. don’t tell me that GROWN men can’t tell when a woman wants him to go away if she doesn’t explicitly state that she wants him to go away. i’m really tired of women getting blamed for not telling men off when that can get us raped or killed. men need to stop telling us to “just say no” because we are fucking terrified of saying no. and you know what? if we do say no or tell the guy off, we still get called rude bitches by the same men who tell us to “just say no uwu” lol like fuck off